hoofbeat-legato:

Guess who got a new halter? :D

Eeeee, the tiny earsssss!

hoofbeat-legato:

Guess who got a new halter? :D

Eeeee, the tiny earsssss!

@4 hours ago with 3 notes

ISTG I am going to murder one of the students at this university one day. So very not a people person. If I could just go to lecture and wear some sort of noise canceling headset tuned in to the professor, that would be ideal.

@11 hours ago
#Eachuisge: personal #please make them stop talking 
snowhyte:

madchangeling:

lycorine:

bonerack:

princessnecrophilia:

weeaboo-chan:

vhscars:

protest-resources:

50 Shades of Abuse Flyer - Canada
Use, redistribute, print. 
Click image and magnify for large version.

Okay. I understood all the flack Twilight got for being an abusive relationship. Because it was and it was being read by a very young and impressionable audience. But ffs, 50 Shades is an ADULT NOVEL. Iit is about a BDSM couple. Which - newsflash - do exist. It is a completely consensual form of dominate/submissive sex play. The whole concept of domestic violence and abuse is that one side exerts control over an unwilling victim. I don’t recall Anastasia, or whatever she’s called, protesting to Christian’s form of sex. If I remember correctly, she quite enjoyed it! So before you condemn a work of romanticized fiction, actually consider it’s audience and remember that they are mature and capable enough to know the difference between reality and fiction.

so i guess you didn’t read the parts where he coerces her and the part where he continues after she has used her safeword and acts like a fucking creep whenever they aren’t having sex
it is the worst possible introduction to BDSM i could imagine
i know my shit okay

im hoping the people defending this book are 1. never getting into BDSM 2. not currently into BDSM 3. havent read the book bc i dont want to believe anyone is that fucking stupid

Let me
just
fucking
drop
some fucking
knowledge on you right now.
Wanna know the BDSM mantra? Safe, sane, consensual.
So let me explain why this book was devoid of all three of these things.
Safe - In the first few chapters of the novel, Christian Grey tracks Ana’s cell phone to find her at a club. Takes her home when she’s drunk, changes her when she’s so intoxicated she doesn’t remember him doing so,and informs her he will be keeping tabs on her for her own benefit. This is not the behaviour of a respectable Dominant. This is the behaviour of a power hungry, abusive asshole who really can’t take no for an answer.
Sane - One of the most important parts of BDSM is aftercare. Scenes can be extremely traumatizing and intense for the submissive. Aftercare is anything from petting to cuddling to holding to sweet talking, whatever degree of gentleness a bottom would need to pull them out of “subspace”. How does Christian provide aftercare? He submits Ana to a traumatizing first time spanking experience AND THEN FUCKING LEAVES. AND GETS MAD THAT SHE DIDN’T TELL HIM SHE WAS UPSET. He’s the one who should fucking know better! That, again, is not the act of a responsible Dominant. It’s the act of a selfish abuser.
Consensual - Did I mention he undressed her when she was belligerently drunk? Tracked her phone to locate her? He also buys her a new car despite her saying no countless times. Now, consent is important for any kind of sexual activity at all. Consent means informed, consent means enthusiastic. Informed, enthusiastic consent. This is crucial in a BDSM setting. Scenes can be extremely intense, especially for the bottom. What is Christian’s form of obtaining consent? Handing Ana a fucking contract highlighting all the things he wants to do her asshole and asking her to sign it. She was a virgin (Don’t even get me fucking started.) who had never before been exposed to BDSM. Entering in that kind of relationship takes a gargantuan amount of trust and knowledge so you know exactly what you’re getting into. Not reading a list of kinks on a piece of paper and signing your rights to say no away. Christian didn’t offer her resources, he didn’t offer her information. He gave her an ultimatum. That is not the sort of consent a responsible Dom/me would seek from their submissive.
Fuck. This. book. It’s written in a shitty way, it’s a terrible example of a BDSM relationship (ask anybody already involved in the lifestyle and watch them go blue in the face just thinking about it), which is already faced with enough prejudice and misunderstand, and it romanticizes and glorifies abuse.

I will never read this book. How awful! 

i hope people take it as it is: fiction 
this lady could have really done a better job, but that would require that she knows what she’s talking about…oh honey…no….that’s not how we BDSM. 


that book is creepy as fuck

snowhyte:

madchangeling:

lycorine:

bonerack:

princessnecrophilia:

weeaboo-chan:

vhscars:

protest-resources:

50 Shades of Abuse Flyer - Canada

Use, redistribute, print. 

Click image and magnify for large version.

Okay. I understood all the flack Twilight got for being an abusive relationship. Because it was and it was being read by a very young and impressionable audience. But ffs, 50 Shades is an ADULT NOVEL. Iit is about a BDSM couple. Which - newsflash - do exist. It is a completely consensual form of dominate/submissive sex play. The whole concept of domestic violence and abuse is that one side exerts control over an unwilling victim. I don’t recall Anastasia, or whatever she’s called, protesting to Christian’s form of sex. If I remember correctly, she quite enjoyed it! So before you condemn a work of romanticized fiction, actually consider it’s audience and remember that they are mature and capable enough to know the difference between reality and fiction.

so i guess you didn’t read the parts where he coerces her and the part where he continues after she has used her safeword and acts like a fucking creep whenever they aren’t having sex

it is the worst possible introduction to BDSM i could imagine

i know my shit okay

im hoping the people defending this book are 1. never getting into BDSM 2. not currently into BDSM 3. havent read the book bc i dont want to believe anyone is that fucking stupid

Let me

just

fucking

drop

some fucking

knowledge on you right now.

Wanna know the BDSM mantra? Safe, sane, consensual.

So let me explain why this book was devoid of all three of these things.

Safe - In the first few chapters of the novel, Christian Grey tracks Ana’s cell phone to find her at a club. Takes her home when she’s drunk, changes her when she’s so intoxicated she doesn’t remember him doing so,and informs her he will be keeping tabs on her for her own benefit. This is not the behaviour of a respectable Dominant. This is the behaviour of a power hungry, abusive asshole who really can’t take no for an answer.

Sane - One of the most important parts of BDSM is aftercare. Scenes can be extremely traumatizing and intense for the submissive. Aftercare is anything from petting to cuddling to holding to sweet talking, whatever degree of gentleness a bottom would need to pull them out of “subspace”. How does Christian provide aftercare? He submits Ana to a traumatizing first time spanking experience AND THEN FUCKING LEAVES. AND GETS MAD THAT SHE DIDN’T TELL HIM SHE WAS UPSET. He’s the one who should fucking know better! That, again, is not the act of a responsible Dominant. It’s the act of a selfish abuser.

Consensual - Did I mention he undressed her when she was belligerently drunk? Tracked her phone to locate her? He also buys her a new car despite her saying no countless times. Now, consent is important for any kind of sexual activity at all. Consent means informed, consent means enthusiastic. Informed, enthusiastic consent. This is crucial in a BDSM setting. Scenes can be extremely intense, especially for the bottom. What is Christian’s form of obtaining consent? Handing Ana a fucking contract highlighting all the things he wants to do her asshole and asking her to sign it. She was a virgin (Don’t even get me fucking started.) who had never before been exposed to BDSM. Entering in that kind of relationship takes a gargantuan amount of trust and knowledge so you know exactly what you’re getting into. Not reading a list of kinks on a piece of paper and signing your rights to say no away. Christian didn’t offer her resources, he didn’t offer her information. He gave her an ultimatum. That is not the sort of consent a responsible Dom/me would seek from their submissive.

Fuck. This. book. It’s written in a shitty way, it’s a terrible example of a BDSM relationship (ask anybody already involved in the lifestyle and watch them go blue in the face just thinking about it), which is already faced with enough prejudice and misunderstand, and it romanticizes and glorifies abuse.

I will never read this book. How awful! 

i hope people take it as it is: fiction 

this lady could have really done a better job, but that would require that she knows what she’s talking about…oh honey…no….that’s not how we BDSM. 

that book is creepy as fuck

@1 day ago with 152597 notes

flowflower:

hooooly shit

Oh.

@2 days ago with 34 notes

This blog is against 50 Shades of Grey and sees it for what it truly is: glorification of abuse on women and literal trash

(Source: thelivelydreamer, via justaquickquestion)

@2 days ago with 22532 notes

carpeumbra:

kittengrin:

kittengrin:

carpeumbra:

kittengrin:

carpeumbra:

Fifty Shades of Domestic Abuse

50 Shades of Damaging Stereotypes 

Fifty Shades of Wanna Guess How Many People Will Be Hospitalized Due To Flesh Wounds From Improper Knots After The Movie?

50 Shades of Glorified Abuse

50 Shades of Kidney Damage from Incompetent Crop Use

Fifty Shades of Pathological Violence Due To Past Trauma Isn’t Kink

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@3 days ago with 78298 notes

I have no idea what my brain has been doing recently, but I’ve been unfocused and irritable. I’m supposed to meet up with some of the boy’s friends tonight, but I don’t think it’ll go well if I do.


I think I’m going to make up a batch of pierogies from scratch. Cooking makes things better, right?

@3 days ago
#Eachuisge: personal #whining ahoy 

*quietly weeping*

helens78:

Fifty Shades of Grey, the movie, is coming out on Valentine’s Day.

I felt a great disturbance in the Force, as if millions of voices suddenly cried out in terror and were suddenly silenced

Yay, let’s put out a movie based on a book that depicts an abusive relationship but masquerades as “BDSM” on Valentines Day. Ugh.

(via pascaldupuis)

@4 days ago with 77 notes

rosietheriveter:

remember: if you want to be taken seriously as a female sports fan you must have watched the sport for a minimum of 27 years, be able to recall the entire roster from last year and 1983, never insinuate that a player is the least bit attractive, and memorize the rule book backwards in Cantonese

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@8 hours ago with 11322 notes
#Even if you prove a fanboy wrong about his favorite player chances are you still won't be taken seriously 

I did a thing while I was riding today and now my back won’t let me sit upright. God damn it.

This is why conditioning is important, kids.

@21 hours ago
#eachuisge: personal 
horsescarsanddykesohmy:

7/25/14
watercolor

horsescarsanddykesohmy:

7/25/14

watercolor

@2 days ago with 521 notes
fuckyeahungulates:

Lowland Bongo (Tragelaphus eurycerus eurycerus)

fuckyeahungulates:

Lowland Bongo (Tragelaphus eurycerus eurycerus)

@2 days ago with 283 notes
#Teddi has Feelings about hoofstock 

Does anyone know if there’s an equivalent program to tumblr savior for Pinterest?

I like to look for recipes, crafts, jewelry, and tattoos. I do not enjoy every other post about Jesus, God, hating liberals, or children. Uuuuuuugh.

@2 days ago with 1 note

If the signs were mythological creatures:

Aries:Werewolf
Taurus:Hell hound
Gemini:Doppelgänger
Cancer:Banshee
Leo:Fairy
Virgo:Angel
Libra:Nymph
Scorpio:Siren
Sagittarius:Ghost
Capricorn:Mermaid
Aquarius:Vampire
Pisces:Shapeshifter
@3 days ago with 82299 notes
#Hellhound seems accurate. 
fuckyeahungulates:

Pere David’s Deer (Elaphurus davidianus)

fuckyeahungulates:

Pere David’s Deer (Elaphurus davidianus)

@4 days ago with 81 notes
#Milu!! #teddi has Feelings about hoofstock